Bullying has become just a part of growing up - has become a serious problem to the point where the school is no longer a safe place for our children.
When I think of Alex Wildman under his own life because he was bullied mercilessly read, I went down to the heart for his family - and Alex there. The way he felt when he decided that suicide was his only chance, pain, loneliness and the struggle must have, it is difficult to understand.
According to Kids Helpline,Bullying is the fourth most common cause of small children asking for help for support services. This is a topic that does not go away quickly.
So what is it that drives a person to harass others? As a teenager I interviewed for my book "You better find your way through themes Teen," admitted Tom a bully at school. "I was intimidated and then there was a time when I was a tyrant," he said. "I sense weakness in someone to intimidate others andthem. I think this has been driven by the need to be accepted, and have some kind of influence or control in my life. "
Bullies are asserting their authority to gain popularity and try to help pay for his own feelings of inadequacy. But at what point it was nice, expected to break a fellow student that the only way to escape as the torture continues to go is to take your own life?
Bullying is everywhere these days. It is no longer limited toThe school yard or railway station bus stop and train station, when students are on the way home from school. Bullies stalk cell of your child. They try to exploit the vulnerability of your child by selectively blocking chat online and recruiting others to do the same. This is the online version of what was once the playground politics know Go away, we do not want to hang with us. " It is also in front of your child's room, the only place you should feel safe. Bullying online via instant messaging,Facebook, MySpace and chat room means that the homeland security risk.
According to a study conducted at the Australian Catholic University (ACU National) Canberra campus, a quarter of school children to experience cyber-bullying and some victims do not report incidents to their teachers fear the loss of access to new technologies.
Robert staphylococcus aureus disease contracted at the age of 15 and because of bleeding and floor mats from his scalp and hair, was forced to shave his head."Because I looked different and had a clear disease, people in the school to enjoy the scars on my scalp and teased me to die. It made me feel hopeless and I found it difficult to find friends and fit me very depressed now. "Robert also sought his life by jumping from a high wall. He was paralyzed for several days and all I could think about what was, what he wanted to live. He says: "When you talk with teachers being bullied and parents, as long as your voiceheard. "
But what about those like Alex, who are too afraid to speak?
Therefore, we have a strong support network of school counselors, teachers and tutors in schools to stop bullying in its tracks provide vigilant need. The perception must be a change in which bullying is so cool that the authors themselves, and are closed unpopular. Tough penalties for cyber-bullying must be done so that our children have a sense of security and know thatif they are victims of bullying as it is a protocol to follow as they deem safe.
Meanwhile Alex Wildman family mourn the loss of a young man with tremendous potential, whose life tragically cut short, because he was publicly ridiculed and humiliated by his colleagues. This can not happen to someone else.
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