Pain is difficult at any age but is particularly difficult for adolescents. Http: / / www.hospice.net As he notes, "Children are no longer children but not grow." While young people are struggling with the pain for the discussion of the physical, academic, and sometimes the pressures of family, emotional.
Teen responses to pain are similar to the reactions of adults, according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). When Dr. Alan Wolfelt, director of theCenter for Loss and Life Transition in Fort Collins, Colorado, said on the website of NIMH "Young people may feel very guilty about his failure to prevent injury to the loss of human lives."
Teen grief was very real to my daughter, one-year-old single mother of twins 45, was killed in a car. Teens learn from adults, but I'm learning from my year-old nephew of 15. The things I learned can help bereaved young people in family, school orChurch.
involve children. Teens want to say whether to bury or burn their loved ones. He asked her to help with the funeral service is another way to include them. Months can young people want a memorial, like a tree planted in memory of their loved one.
PROMOTION tears. In his book "The Language of Tears," Jeffrey A. Kottler describes the process to cry like a man healthy and necessary. But young people can holdTears and try to act strong. We can cry to help young people by giving them is OK.
KEEP routine. family routines and provide structure for the adolescent life, beyond the control. More importantly, the routines are often links to help lines - groups of self-help, school / church / interior, and caring friends.
Stories. Talking about the deceased helps, remember that anyone who lives in a teen. Teens want to feel, funny, uplifting stories of family Members and friends. You can book you want to compile these stories into a memory.
USE peers. Helen Fitzgerald, Training Director of the Hospice Foundation, young people often think only trust peers. A crew church can help adolescents in mourning as more formal consultation. Many young people write about sadness on blogs and this is called P-2 P communication.
HUG careful. When they hear of a loss of foreign teenagers, who often embrace.Teenagers can contact them hugs see as an invasion of personal space e. Before embracing a teen ask their permission.
be soft. You need a good, non-judgmental listener to win the trust of a teenager, "said Helen Fitzterald. So I know you guys love them and care for them." Do you support or ideas gently introduce new ways of communicating their ideas, "Fitzgerald advised approach.
See a future. Future projects such as examiningCamp helps young people see a happy future and returning. When Betty Clare Moffatt said the "soul work", we need to finally let go of pain. "Let tomorrow come in joy," he writes. "Start again. Start now."
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