Chapter 1 (excerpt)
Why kids recite
I recall too vividly my adolescence, and for the most part, I have my parents through hell.
I rebelled, acted out, stayed up all night trying to cut the drug, school, lost my virginity and was deeply unhappy at this stage of my life.
You may be wondering what all triggered in me, so I'll share with you the answer right away.
I really was not honored or acknowledged that Iwas inside. Instead, I was abused. There were many days when it was not abused, but like me, who cut deep wound to the heart of who I was. I remember beaten with a belt and called "stupid, stupid, dead from the neck up, a nothing, a nobody, and" throughout my adolescence.
Of course, as an adult I have forgiven my adoptive father for the care, because I learned that actually did the best job that he knew at that moment. But it took me most of my lifethe emotional and psychological impact to cancel the treatment.
I was taught to "look sexy" and "grow a rich man to take care of me." It took many years and turn around so that my self-esteem may come from within and my self-sufficiency could be achieved by the discovery of my true purpose in life, my passion, I will earn my job.
The beginning of the downward spiral
I spoke with parents and help from all walks of life, all cultures, countries,and backgrounds that I have intense spiritual care and tele-seminars. A common thread they all have in common is that they were abused grow up, and if the abuse was emotional, mental or physical damage has clearly even in their adulthood. All had low self-esteem, just like me. Your teenage years were largely spent in their parents going to go on eggshells and do not rock the boat for fear of punishment or disapproval. They also had parents who went tothrough the same cycle. Consequently, they had not yet taught them how to reverse all that is the purpose of this book.
Your youth
This book covers many bases, who taught you bring a lot of attention, or you have forgotten or never. In addition, there is a method in this book that teenagers will continue to help the situation in which the face, small or large in terms of how important visualizationto be.
This process will get answers from God as you understand him or her personally to be, so you always get answers when you can not find answers for themselves, and nothing seems to work.
book many questions to answer questions during this I was given the book of God together with the answers for you, and questions to me by many of my participants in more than one hundred countries before I wrote.
AThing is clear: the parents of all cultures around the world share the same concerns. The themes are universal, and it's time you had simple answers, clear and direct - answers that make a significant difference in your life and the lives of your children.
I share much of my teenage years, so you can understand from the perspective of an adolescent to act which can be rotated in many different ways and deal with the actaround.
Think back now to your own teenage years, I remember, and how they were treated. This is important because the chances are that if your difficulties with teenagers, your teen can be difficult, and only a few years.
I know for sure, and apparently I'm not the only one.
Communicating with adolescents
Unfortunately, what is in my head when I remember my teenage years and was also a lack of love, respectcommon courtesy.
For example, when I was told what to do, I have often wondered why I was really the reason I was told what to do to understand. To my surprise, the answer was: "Because I said so."
This did nothing to help me learn and grow and understand to understand the adult point of view, I would sincerely. Instead of receiving a statement from the heart to understand me, I was, like I was ordained in the Drill Field. A hardthreatening tone pervaded this does not help me at all clear message I received, e.
Now you want a real guide to help your teenager. So I'm going to start giving the first book of some healthy ground rules around this, which will continue.
Here's a basic rule for communication with your children:
Always talk to your teenager as if you were talking to a very respected friend, colleague or member ofSociety.
This is how I talk to my kids, and we have no difficulty in understanding the battles or communication. I speak to them with the same courtesy and respect with which I want to discuss.
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